Relationship Mistakes Ladies Make

A mistake is an error in action,calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness,and insufficient knowledge, etc. This usually happen when a person’s confidence outstrips their skill and has little or nothing to do with the Devil. Even though it is generally believed that nobody is above mistake, making stupid mistakes is a sign of "foolishness". We are all prone to over estimating our abilities, to making impulsive decisions, and to lapses of attention. The simple realization of this makes stupid mistakes seem, perhaps, a little less stupid — and a little more human.

Being intelligent is a quality you should be proud of but it’s only useful when applied correctly. Men don’t really like smart women,especially for Flirting, No man goes out to a bar, to a nightclub, to a strip club for that matter to meet an intelligent woman but being smart about men isn’t the same as being book smart and that is why ladies need to be very careful when taking decisions that can make or mar their future.......it is good to wake up to reality and accept responsibility than transferring Blame to the Devil who has so many troubles already on him from God.

Now, let me share some of the most common issues that ladies need to address if they care about being better lovers, wives, friends, partners and personalities in the society.
Ladies, please consider this list as a launching pad as you embark on a mission to improve yourselves and your ability
to respect your personalities in the society.
These mistakes are avoidable but that will be a topic for another day.

BEING CARELESS AND IMMODEST

Some women seem to be unaware of the danger of being sexually harassed when they dress immodest. this has influenced many cases of rape in the society which they turn out to blame the devil. “Modesty is not first an issue of clothing. It is primarily an issue of the heart. If the
heart is right with God, it will govern itself in purity coupled with humility and will express itself modestly.”
"Purity requires modesty, an integral part of temperance. Modesty protects the intimate center of the person. It means refusing to unveil what should remain
hidden." And this will spare u the energy wasted in blaming the devil.


BEING EXCESSIVELY DEVOTED TO THE WRONG PERSON

Some women can sometimes be stupidly obstinate and remain devoted to guys who are not worth it because they are disrespectful, dishonest, unfaithful, and so on. It is worthy of note that women with low self-esteem tend to force things to work out with the wrong man.....these men in turn take advantage of this opportunity to either turn the lady to a punch bag, sex slave or money making machine "Lolz".........this is purely your personal mistake not devils


PROSTITUTION

Women sometimes do not realize their worth and let others abuse or take advantage of them. “It is your job as a woman, to become as fully realized as you can by having dreams, forging a purpose, building an identity, having courage, and making commitments to things outside yourself. Reducing yourself to the lowest echelon of ridicule in the profession of prostitution is to miss the glory of your identity as a lady because of money consciousness and materialism.


HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX

I’m not a prude by any standard but if you’re actually on the lookout for something steady, don’t end up sleeping with every guy without protection. As cliché as it may sound, men do enjoy the chase and so like it raw but many ain't ready to take responsibilities...........the greatest danger associated with this is transmission of sexually transmitted diseases that may terminate all your dreams of life
So, no matter how wonderful the date is going, try to play safe and go solo like a good girl. If there is a magical moment, don’t hesitate to use protection and spare the devil the blame.


UNREALISTIC RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS

You’re never going to find love if you keep finding flaws in every guy you meet. Perfection is impossible in a human and you’re
rarely going to come across someone who meets all your requirements.
Instead of setting impossible-to-meet standards, figure out what your relationship deal-breakers are and what you can compromise on. And when you meet someone you hit it off with, give him a chance even if he doesn’t meet your criteria. After all, love is not a checklist.
It’s only when you take the pressure off and stop looking so
hard for the “one” that you will find him.......this singular acts makes ladies stay single at late 30s/40s from where they turn to prayer warriors to fire the devil delaying their marriage...hahahahahahah


INDULGING IN ILLEGAL/IMMORAL ACTS

It is of a common knowledge that ladies who get involved in hard drugs are prone to all sorts of immorality that are punishable under the state law.....under the influence of drugs, these ladies go as far as indulging in armed robbery, kidnapping,cultism,rituals,rape and even lesbianism and other petty crimes just to belong....the most painful part of it is most victims of this circumstance are ladies from poor background who out of their selfishness and greed want to live large by all means. the end is usually disastrous and blamed on the devil.